The following things are your fault, and you should apologize to the person you reverse inverse victimized. Not that your crocodile tears will do anything to assuage the pain and trauma you caused:
1. Getting shot in the face with a shotgun.
2. Being sexually harrassed by your boss.
3. Having your head stomped for carrying a political sign at a political rally.
Only then can the healing process begin and forgiveness be granted, magnanimously, if at all.